Love lies and the science of online dating

A quick disclosure: I have a couple of dating profiles online. But this isn’t therapy masquerading as a self-pitying article by some bloke in his late-30s — well, not much, anyway.

I’ve got a number of friends and acquaintances who share my feelings about the way online dating plays fast and loose with your emotions.

As one friend said to me, there was a time when she felt like the most popular woman in the country.Back in 1966, The Supremes told us you can’t hurry love.Sixteen years later Phil Collins concurred when he sang ‘You just have to wait’, additionally noting that ‘love don’t come easy’.It’s like a fast-working drug with a terrible come-down.It’s an ­addictive process, there’s no doubt about it. One is the burst of elation associated with a stranger suddenly deciding that you’re attractive, amusing, a good prospect.

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Internet dating presents you with rock-solid ­evidence. You start seeing the same faces across multiple sites, and some ­people (especially men) will start to play the percentage game, firing off multiple cut-and-paste emails in the hope that someone will reply.

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    Steve

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    Steve

    As humans societies have evolved from hunter-gatherers into civilized societies, there have been substantial changes in relations between men and women, with perhaps one of a few remaining biological constants being that both adult women and men must have sexual intercourse for human procreation to happen.

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    Steve

    (And even that was a disappointment, because it was tarnish on the goldstar, to an extent.) She's been quite open about her and India dating (talked about it on her old Myspace), but India is bi both on and off-screen, so perhaps Prinzz doesn't want to declare herself "100% lesbian" because she thinks it might be perceived as a slam on India?

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    Steve

    A kid can sit down on a chair facing the back, and we make them turn around.

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