I’m not saying these women have landed on any one magical app full of dateable men and steady dates.But with a discerning eye and a sense of humor, they have tamed Tinder and are meeting men who share their desire for a relationship.
As my friend Jena says, “I always swipe right on the guys where we have mutual friends that I trust. Also, prior to the date, I can do a bit of not-so-secret vetting.”A friend and I were getting drinks one day when she confessed that she had recently started using Ok Cupid. ) and the messages he sent (All grammatically correct! Long story short, she went, they fell in love, and they've been happily married for two years.Then I have a photo of me doing my work (I’m an artist, and I love what I do!), a photo of me on my bicycle, a photo where I’m laughing and not looking at the camera, and a photo with my family.When you’re putting in effort, it will be easy to tell if the guy is, too.When I first tried out online dating a few years ago, I didn’t want to admit to anyone that I had a spiritual life, wanted a family and kids, and am two and a half years sober.